I dedicate this site to the memory of my stepdaughter, Heather, who was murdered on Thanksgiving 2017. I want to chronicle some of the events and spiritual insights that happened. It is my hope that this may help some other souls who stumble upon this site. Maybe some good can come off this after all (read more here).  ~ May 2018

life plan

Part 1: Choosing bad things to happen (murder, accidents, illness), or why do bad things happen to good people?

Part 1 of series on why bad things happen to good people. The notion of free will and choice is introduced, and the puzzling question arises how somebody can choose bad things to happen? A view from the interlife literature is presented, as well as an answer from Frank DeMarco and TGU.

Only partially right: the soul as a unit, reincarnation, past lives, life between life

We are divine spirits and souls, and there is something like reincarnation and past-lives. However, the traditional view of reincarnation, while there are some grains of truth to it, has flaws. Seeing a person and his or her soul as an individual unit that reincarnates over and over sets up a limited view of something so much greater.

Making sense of a senseless death, grief, anger, and asking why?

About half a year ago, my stepdaughter was murdered. When you experience such a horrendous tragedy, you feel a range of emotions. Foremost you feel pain, the deepest anguish and grief imaginable. But also anger, anger towards the killer, towards yourself, even towards God. All the while you ask “why”? Why do bad things like this happen to good people? Why does God allow this to happen? What are the causes for such horrible things?

Philosophical thoughts on The Steps of Essence

The whole point of my book The Steps of Essence is to make philosophy accessible to a wider audience, and I don’t want to turn off anybody who is not quite as fluent in philosophy by posting something overly abstruse. The book makes a very conscious effort to stay clear of such heavy language while still presenting the concepts in more accessible form. Warning: serious philosophy lingo in this post Having stated this disclaimer, somebody recently posted this great question to me, which deserves a true philosophical answer, so here we go – philosopher mode on. Warning: serious philosophy lingo below.