I dedicate this site to the memory of my stepdaughter, Heather, who was murdered on Thanksgiving 2017. I want to chronicle some of the events and spiritual insights that happened. It is my hope that this may help some other souls who stumble upon this site. Maybe some good can come off this after all (read more here).  ~ May 2018

the self

Part 1: Choosing bad things to happen (murder, accidents, illness), or why do bad things happen to good people?

Part 1 of series on why bad things happen to good people. The notion of free will and choice is introduced, and the puzzling question arises how somebody can choose bad things to happen? A view from the interlife literature is presented, as well as an answer from Frank DeMarco and TGU.